I've a dear friend who was laid off six years ago - well before the time of massive corporate restructuring and downsizing.  And his degree was in computer science. 

Instead of taking another job as a computer geek, he switched gears completely and became a cop.  A small town cop.  And he couldn't be happier. 

Watching him make the transition with grace, dignity and humor was a boon then.  Now, as we struggle with the current economic challenges, I remember his relentless optimism.  And I'm thankful for his example. 

I am also thankful for all the positives I have in my life.  They are many, even if some are small or often overlooked.  I need to remember these tiny miracles because bad things happen.  All the time.  In ways that are completely unforeseen.   

I read a post from my friend last night.  It's terribly sad.  It's also introspective, something I don't think we as a nation take enough time to cultivate.  We're always rushing; the kids have to get to school, us to work, projects completed, soccer practice or gymnastics, dinner, homework...the list seems interminable.  But the bottom line is we all need time to consider, ponder not only what we are doing but why we are doing it.  The value from our actions comes from knowing their purpose. 

As so many of us struggle with the changes wrought by the current recession, I hope some time is spent in contemplation.  This may be your chance to chart your own course....the one you always wanted but never had the time, energy or education to pursue before. 

Life can be a struggle.  Some moments will be heart-rending and oh-so-painful.  Others will be anxious and scary.  But some capricious moments will be joy and contentment so deep.  Revel in those moments.  They are your pearls that are slowly added to your chain of life.